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NEW YEARS RELATIONSHIP CLEANING?
Now that the New Year is in full swing, many people have been taking a deeper look at their lives and reflecting the recent past and choices they have made. Is it time for a cleaning of your soul? Are their any old relationships or friendships left in your closet that need cleaning? Any old resentments, sadness, anger self-criticism left in the drawers of your mind? When it comes to your friendships and relationships are they as rich and deep as you’d like them to be? Do you hang on to old worn thoughts that weigh you down? We all need to weed out the old to make room for the new! Let go of old relationship pain, friends that don’t support you, clothing and memories that hold you back.
So many people hold onto sadness from the past that they leave no room for new growth and stop love from coming into their lives. In my private sessions, I find people that hold onto the past for years. One man I met with had been so guarded he just had one casual sexual affair after another because he had promised he would never love again! Is holding back from loving again the way to protect you from pain or does it cause pain? You have to want to love and risk again! Most people have been wounded at one time or another. Are we all going to build wall so thick we never let love in? Here are some thoughts to reflect upon that a friend sent me. Use these to evaluate and consider while you’re setting New resolutions for your life!
* Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
* The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
* No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
* To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
* Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
* Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally
meet the person; we will know how to be grateful.
* Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
* There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
* Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON
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