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Dear Renee (Love Mechanic),
I know that love takes a lot of time, but I recently started dating a girl whose physical appearance was a 7, but after getting to know her, she became a 10+. Personality wise, she is almost perfect. We are both young, but I am starting to feel as though I am in love. Things have been going great: our family and friends like each other, and I am very comfortable around her.Could this be love?
Dear "Could This Be,"
You sound like a man who is able to look beyond the outer shell of a woman and into her soul. From the sound of it, this could indeed be love. Whether she is "the one" you will love forever or not, she has shown you that a woman's looks are not all that matters when choosing a mate.
Physical beauty tends to wear off as we age, and if you're looking for a long-term relationship, loving your mate for who they are and not merely for what they look like is important. Now don't get me wrong, chemistry and attraction are very important elements of a healthy relationship, yet it is the personality and connection that will make a relationship last.
I'm glad to hear that you can see how a woman's beauty also radiates from within, often making her more beautiful on the outside. Relish in this love, and know that even if you don't go long-term, this relationship has set a standard of values that will guide you toward picking a good partner in the future. You might help other men see that sometimes a 7 can become a 10 with time.
Renee
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